Sex toys are becoming more and more common in people’s sex life. They are great for helping you figure out where your erogenous zones are. And they can add an exciting new dimension to foreplay. When it comes to choosing your first toy, the selection can be daunting, even if you already know the safety guidelines. These tips will help you choose your first sex toy more easily.
Vibration
Some people like vibrations. Others find the sensation unusual at first but learn to enjoy it, and some people remain cold. Until you try it, you won’t know which category you fall into. However, it is worth starting with a light vibration, as more intense vibrations can be a shock to your system at first. A simple, basic vibrator is a good beginner toy. Start with the lightest setting. If you find it tingles too much, place your hand under it or use it on a sheet. If you prefer more vibration instead, simply increase the setting.
The size
Choose a size that you don’t find intimidating. Toys are generally harder and denser than the real thing, so don’t be surprised if a toy the same size as your partner’s penis feels too big.
Food
Sex toys can use batteries, be recharged on normal electric current, and there is even solar. Check how a sex toy charges before you buy it, so you don’t find that it uses hard-to-find battery sizes.
Discretion
It is normal to be embarrassed to use a sex toy, especially if you are a novice. It can help make it less painful if you choose one that is quiet. And now there are many ordinary places where you can buy them, both online and in stores. Why not start small, with a ring, massager or mini vibrator ? These are great sex toys for first-time buyers and for couples who want to check the water before diving in.
